Why hesitate to talk? 10 tips for a male to talk with a female (Known, friends or strangers)?
03 July 2017
Do you think getting the courage to talk to girls is impossible? It comes by default, and there is no way to develop it? Does it mean those who can do it possess it by birth? Come on; it is not the thing. It is a personality trait that we can develop by practicing some easy steps.
Build the confidence first
Do not forget it. Confidence is the key. You should look good from outside to build up confidence. Physical appearance gives a feel good factor. When you take a shower, wear clothes that are just perfect, use mouthwash and put on the best perfume. Believe it or not, but you will get enough courage by all this.
Be positive, be assertive
Positivity works remarkably well. When you convince yourself that you are smart and confident, you start feeling the same. Listen to a few motivational tapes if you feel so.
Work on the body language
There are several tips about using the right body language. Stand erect, put the shoulders back and keep smiling. It creates a ‘larger than life’ image of yours. Read a few books on the topic or watch some videos.
Change your thinking process
When you don’t look at the physical appearance and focus on her qualities, things become very simple. You develop great confidence and don’t feel hesitant in talking to girls. Do not think that you are talking to a girl. Pretend as if you are talking to a guy.
Don’t think that you are inexperienced
It is a mental trap actually. If you think that you will talk to a girl confidently only when you have some experience of it, then where will you get the experience from?
Hence, just go ahead and start talking. Let it be a fiasco, but you will learn a lot from experience.
Do not have over expectations
Are you over excited about the outcome of the meeting? If yes, then it is going to be a big mess. You should not meet the girl with many expectations back of the mind. Rather, you should go for a good conversation, that’s all!
Be ready to get rejected
Don’t think that you will create a fabulous impression in the first attempt. It could be a pathetic experience. Do you think you should not talk to girls because they reject you? No, it is an incorrect approach. Rather, you should start the conversation without fear. Three is a high probability of getting success.
Keep aside gender bias
You should not talk to a girl with prejudice and bias. Treat the girl well and greet her as soon as you meet her. It could be a simple ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’. Don’t feel weird about her. It will make you cautious.
Listen to her attentively
Yes, you are there to establish a conversation. Therefore, it is equally important to be a good listener.
Come out of the inferiority complex
Stop thinking yourself worthless. You are the best creation of nature. Nobody else can replace you because you are unique.
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